Wednesday, August 31, 2005

Cellphones

I use my cellphone a lot. I mean really a lot. Working for myself, my phone is my office. There are a few things I will not do but I see people doing with their cells all of the time.

1) Bathroom talking. A few weeks ago I was at the mall and went in to the bathroom. I had just stepped up to the urinal when I here a voice say "Hey man, how you doing?" I look around and determine that the voice was coming from the stall. The guy kept talking but it was also very clear that he was doing some work in that stall if you know what I mean. Whoever he was talking had to know what he was doing while talking.

2) Taking calls in the middle of meetings. I have to have my phone on at all times in case the hospital calls with a kidney match. I have my phone set to vibrate and if it rings I pull it out, see who it is and send it to voice mail. If it were to be the Hospital, I would excuse myself from the meeting and go return the call.
Last week I was at a meeting. There was about a hundred people there to listen to 3 companies make presentations. One person in the audience kept receiving calls the entire time. Her phone was not on vibrate. She would answer the call and talk in a NORMAL voice to whomever was calling her. People around her had difficulties hearing the presentations when this would happen but yet she kept doing it. And the calls would be whole conversations not "hey I am being extremely rude to talk to you in such a public forum. Let me call you back at a more appropriate time..."
I hate when people talk on their phones during a movie, too.

3) Phone headsets. I have a bluetooth phone and am trying to use the headset when driving. I was at another meeting the other day and somebody was wearing an old headset throughout the entire meeting even though they werent using the phone. Think late 1980's Garth Brooks touring headset and you have an idea what she looked like. Like she was a cyborg or something. My point is that it is ok to use the headsets to talk on but do you really need to leave it on all day?

Tuesday, August 23, 2005

News Tonight

Was watching the local news tonight. They had a story I tried to find a link to the video but couldnt so I will just have to tell it.

A woman decided two years ago that she should give a kidney to someone but didnt know anybody that needed one (she didnt even know anyone that had EVER had kidney problems). She kept feeling strongly about this but didnt know what to do. Earlier this year, she interviewed a woman to work in her real estate company. She asked if the woman would be available on weekends (kinda important in the real estate industry) but the woman said no because she had to look after her sick husband. "What's wrong if you dont mind my asking?" She learned that the woman's husband had a heriditary kidney disease and needed a transplant. The woman met the man pretty soon and underwent the tests and found out she was a perfect match and 2 months ago the transplant occured. They both are doing well. The donor is even giving 10% of her commissions (I didnt hear for how long) to kidney disease research.

I am glad to know that there are people like this woman and people like my potential donors.


Editor's note... Just found the link here to the video of the story if you are interested

Look what I found

Sunday I went to look at Southern Living's model home. It has a lot of new things to help make the house more environmentally friendly and supposedly cheaper to live in. It is a beautiful craftsman style house with a spectacular view of Atlanta. What they dont readily tell you is that the other houses in this subdivision or running $400-$500k but the super-eco house would cost $1.2 million to build.

But the best part of the day is that I found a gas station that was selling gas for $2.35 a gallon while most stations near us were $2.60 or more. WOW!!!

Monday, August 15, 2005

All I needed to Learn...

One of the most inspirational people in my life was my fourth grade teacher. She was more of an adopted grandmother than a teacher. She taught us some arts and crafts as well as multiplication.

When I was around 12 or 13 she gave me my first job. It was cutting her yard. It was a pretty good size yard and took a couple of hours to do it. Usually she would make me a sandwich when I got through. Turkey with mayo. Sometimes she would make me two. I think about her just about every time I eat a turkey sandwich even to this day.

She is responsible for a couple of other things in my life, too. To go along with the turkey sandwich would be a Coke (usually from a small bottle because she said they were better) over shaved ice. She had this old contraption on her covered porch. "What's that?" I asked. "It's an ice crusher" and then she showed me how it works. You put ice in the top and then crank the handle to crush the ice. I always had to have crushed ice from that time on and even today, I prefer crushed ice to regular ice cubes.

Growing up my parents didnt use many spices. My adopted grandmother/former teacher turned me on to spicy foods via cheese straws. For her cheese straws, she added extra garlic and red pepper. I have never had any cheese straws that I like as much as I liked hers but I have looked. She would make me cheese straws at least once a year. She would give my family two batches, one for everybody else and one extra spicy for me. I wish I had gotten her recipe.

A few years ago she died. I was sorely disappointed with the funeral. The main pastor of her church decided he didnt do funerals so junior minister who had never met her lead the service. Instead of words of comfort and memories of her, we learned how the minister met his wife and what he did before becoming a minister. He spent almost an hour talking about himself like he was the one being honored.

Anyway, she had a great impact on my life and helped to mold me to whom I am. I think about her often.

Sunday, August 14, 2005

What did he mean?

As I have posted before, the wife and I like poker. We like to watch it, read about it and play it. Several months ago while in Vegas I got my first autograph of a poker professional. Since then I have built up quite a collection including the living legend of Poker, Doyle Brunson. Yesterday I got an autograph in the mail of Atlanta poker pro (and winner of 2 World Series of Poker bracelets) Josh Arieh. It reads "since I moved away its your job to hold down the SWATS!!" I have spent yesterday and today trying to figure out what that means. 1) He hasnt moved away from where I live (we are probably 15 miles apart) and 2) What is a "SWAT"

Maybe I dont know enough poker lingo and it means Have a Nice Day. Or maybe he was doing multiple autographs and got mine confused somehow with someone else.

Speaking of puzzling writings.... When wifey and I got married 2 years ago, we had at our reception a couple of photo mats for people to sign. An old friend of wifey wrote my wife's name and DONALD and then crossed out Donald and wrote in my name. I keep kidding my wife about Donald. Anytime she says, "you remember the time we..." I always say, "No. That must have been Donald..."

Friday, August 12, 2005

Our dogs

Wifey and I have 2 dogs. Mine is a Australian Sheperd Mix with one blue eye and one brown. He is the most laid back, friendly dog.

Wifey has an Australian Cattle Dog/Terrier mixed. She is really high strung but still a sweety.

Both dogs are Herding Dogs. They are very protective of their herd (the wife and I) and are cautious about letting new people, especially men, into their territory. This is very true of the wife's dog.

A truck goes up the street and the dogs will go crazy. Doorbell gets rung and the go nuts. When door to door sales people ring the bell you should see them react when they hear the dogs barking and growling. The best story is a couple of months after we got wifey's dog, a door to door salesman was at the door. When I opened the door the little dog ran out and then peed on the salesman's shoes. It was way too funny.

The other day, wifey's dog discovered the fireant bed in our back yard. They attacked her nose, cheeks, and back legs. We had to take her to the emergency vet in the middle of the night (wifey actually took her since I was hooked up to the dialysis machine). They gave her a couple of shots and she is all better now.

Oh well, I think I will go play with the dogs for a little while.

Wildlife

We live in an area that is just 15 minutes from a major city but we are in a quiet, wooded subdivision. When we first moved in we had a deer go running through the woods behind out house. He was a big buck.

We have had geese come to visit us, too.

Last week we had a hawk sitting on our fence. He was soooooo beautiful.

Friday, August 05, 2005

Big Update

I am getting closer to the transplant operation. About 5 weeks ago, 2 potential donors and I had blood drawn in the same day to have crossmatching tests ran. They both are matches (technically they both tested negative to antigens in the blood that would cause them to not be matches for me). I have talked with both but have never met either one of them. The next step will be for one of them to go throught the 2 day evaluation I did back in the first part of the year. More details as I know them and can share them.